In the year leading up to my 40th birthday I made the conscious decision to focus on my health and wellness and not to focus on finding the partner that thus far had eluded me.
I got into the best shape of my life and went into my 40th celebrations legitimately feeling 40 and fabulous. I was surrounded by the most wonderful family and friends a person could ask for and was 100% in love with my life.
Then I committed to spending the next year focused on finding the person to share my life with. I went back on the dating apps in full force and stumbled upon Christine. I realized I had become a man magnet but unfortunately, attracted the wrong man. Not a bad man, just “so not my dude,” as my friend called him. I spent WAY too much time on this person who was so clearly not my person.
In the midst of coming to this realization Christine asked if I was sick of being single, felt like I was attracting the wrong men and wasting my time in dead end relationships? YES, YES and YES! Christine got it and me right away. I was purchasing her services before the 30 minutes was over.
She was so real with me and knew I had dating exhaustion from being on so many dating apps and obviously, I absolutely needed to break off contact with my on again off-again man; who so clearly wouldn’t ever be what I needed. I of course didn’t immediately do that…I know, I know! Christine didn’t judge me, she listened, coached and told it to me straight. Eventually I listened to Christine’s advice and cut off communication with the “so not my dude” guy. And you know what? The very next day I met my person, the next day! Christine coached me through the beginning of our relationship with a man who totally is my dude!
Other life events totally unrelated to the task at hand came up and Christine quickly switched gears demonstrating her expertise and compassion is not limited to the dating realm!
Christine I cannot thank you enough for all that you did for me. I “met” you at exactly the right time and you told me exactly what I needed to hear…even when I didn’t want to hear it. You are wonderful at what you do and helped me get to a place where I was ready to receive the love I deserve. — xoxo Jen